I was teased during my childhood for being the little fat girl, interestingly enough, the worst words were from my family – who themselves were “big boned”. Eventually, I decided to carry my weight proudly, believing that I was inherently this way and couldn’t change what I looked like because it was hereditary. I would go on every hike in boarding school, climb every hill, climb trees, play sports and also give my mother numerous hernias from always injuring myself by playing too rough with the boys. As I mature, I used my weight in my favor, to get what I want and I also made it a mission to date/smash all the athletic boys I came in contact with to prove that my size didn’t stop me from getting what I wanted.
Fast forward…. Now as I Design My Vibe, Design My Tribe & Design My Sexy, all I want to do is share how magical it is to have my VIBE & my version of SEXY, go hand in hand! I don’t want to look like anyone else, I don’t have a goal weight in mind, I don’t believe in diets and I still love tacos, french fries, goat roti and char siu bao (Chinese steamed bbq pork buns). I now understand the difference between eating for content and fueling my body to be Optimus Prime with things I actually enjoy eating.
More than ever, I love that I understand the purpose of my body – to carry my amazing soul, support me through my life journey and be a beautiful visual that matches the soul. My sole purpose is to impact the world in a positive way, something that is heavily dependent on my body’s ability to do all it needs to operate.
My sole purpose is to impact the world in a positive way, something that is heavily dependent on my body’s ability to do all it needs to operate.
I love my height, I love my love handles, I love my broad nose, I love each scar, I love my 🍑, I love my thighs, I love my arms, I love my beautiful high cheekbones… and the list goes on. I love everything about my body because it is the vessel. I love everything about my body because it is the visual representation of my soul!
My 29th Birthday Wish is that for each and every one of you to create the connection of mind, BODY & soul. Feed your mind, fuel your body and love your soul.
You cannot glow in one sector without glowing in the other.